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What Matters Most : Looks or Heart?
There is a thin line difference between the term good looking and looking good. While the former is only limited to the physical attributes, the latter extends to the inner beauty and intelligence.
We are in the world of beauty and competition. Today we are at our best to find out what is good for us and what is bad. Life is a scheme of beautiful people. In today's era looks are not considered so important for any human being on this earth. The talent, which any human being possesses, is of considerable importance. Life is a like a sweet fruit which everyone desires but if a human heart is sweet people take advantage of it and lend that heart into trouble.

Today levery man yearns for a wife who is not only good looking but intelligent as well. Looks do matter to any human being on this earth but intelligence is equally important. Today every man wishes to marry a woman who is working and the one who can manage home as well as family at one and the same time.
Some people get carried away by this looks so much that they do not come across anything else but good looks, good looks and good looks. And here is where the problems actually begin. Life is not a clear bowl of soup but it has to have some amount of other qualities for the life to follow a straight path. It is not necessary that a person with dread gorgeous good looks would be a good person at heart. But that's not the case everywhere .It should be understood that life is not simply a bed of roses. If a person has some physical defect then that person is not considered very much fortunate irrespective of the fact that he might be good at heart. But that person who is not good looking but is not having any physical defect than that person should be satisfied that he is not suffering from any problems whatsoever and he should thank god for that.

Being a good looking person is a blessing and a variant quality that anyone and everyone desires. But a person with a good nature will be appreciated more than anything else. So if people with an attitude who holds a strong ego are the people who would have strained relations and would'nt be so well appreciated by anyone on this earth. So trust is the factor that's important. So whether looks or heart they do matter but what ultimately matters is be on par with both the qualities. In matters of looks one should balance it properly and in matters of heart one should be a kind-hearted person who at a point in life should be willing to sacrifice for the good of others. No matter how you want to spin it, beautiful people are just that, beautiful.

Seemingly, a blitzing media that sells everything from lingerie to exotic cars with some gorgeous blonde or brunette sitting next to it engulfs most of us. An idea that if it's candy to the eyes, it will sell to the general public more readily. While this concept is hardly new and not far from the truth, how important of a factor does it play in landing someone that you could see yourself spending the rest of your days with? You would be surprised how shallow many adults are!

The idea of bypassing personality for the most part and simply sizing up prospects physical attributes for a potential long-term mate can be nothing short of disastrous. So what is the hurt in holding out until you find a perfect match. You know, someone who has it all, personality, character, integrity, dignity, compassion, accountability, compatability, aspirations, and empathy? It is because in a long term relationship, the heart, character, and integrity will ninety nine times out of a hundred always win in the end. There are beautiful people who have the whole package, brains and beauty. Although, they are not the easiest to find and not the easiest to tame.

If a person knows they have the full gamut of qualities, they know their marketability, so 'you'd better bring your A game' if you are going to spend time with them, is usually their mindset. When speaking on the heart, intentions always come to mind. What intentions does a person have as they travel through their respective life? Are they about others first, and then themselves, or do they want their's first? This is a poignant question anyone can ask himself or herself as a soul search in order to gain additional perspective about their heart so as to know the path they are travelling down. Once more, this is a quality to look for when screening a panel of people who you see have potential and peering through thin disguises can become a learned, efficient art. Question: Would you pass up an opportunity to be with someone who is not your ideal physical specimen but you know they would be the perfect compliment to you and vice versa just to be with a less compatible, more attractive person? That question is what one should sort out before delving deep into a committed relationship. Your honest intentions usually mean everything to someone else and are the very hinge a single persons future can depend on. Being lost when understanding intentions are not a viable option. Fact: Some of the most beautiful people I have ever been around are some of the least attractive to the eyes; their caring, selflessness, attitude, and personality are impossible to overlook, leaving the more attractive person 'somewhere in a cloud of dust on a rural road in my mind.'

Their heart is like a beacon in the pitch dark where light is less than sparse. It screams without saying a word! People with good hearted intentions are like glimmering diamonds. Finding them is not that hard if you know what you're looking for. So next time you come across a less than beautiful potential mate, ask yourself, "is this person's inner beauty worth tossing away, or did you just find a gem?"
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Posted on : 29/12/2005
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